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True
Love Advice
True
Love Advice About Feminine Energy
When it comes to true love, there are many useful
things to understand about keeping it alive and helping it to thrive.
True love needs to be nurtured in order to grow.
And when it comes to true love, women are highly skilled compared to men.
Women are highly practiced in the domain of relatedness. They know a lot.
Women process Feminine Energy. This energy has to do with relationship,
connection, intimacy, closeness. And, women were raised much differently
than men.
Girls play with dolls. They play house. They have tea parties. This is no
small thing. All over the world girls play with dolls in some form or other.
What's the big deal? So what that girls play with dolls? What's this have to
do with feminine energy and relationship? Well, playing with dolls is
playing at nurturing. You cuddle the doll, you empathize, you communicate
with doll. You actually practice and play at caring for someone other than
yourself.
Amazing! We have a worldwide culture where girls "play" at nurturing.
Nurturing is a high feminine quality. Women get into the connection and
expression of the Deep Feminine at a very early age. (Meanwhile, boys are
playing with "toy" guns.)
Not only that, little girls play house and have imaginary tea parties.
Again, this is remarkable. At an imaginary tea party girls (or a girl and
her dolls) will sit around and pretend to drink tea or coffee and eat
pretend (or real) cookies. While this is happening they are doing something
else that is High Feminine.
They are talking and communicating and bonding. Bonding through
communication is an important relationship skill. Girls grow up practicing
relationship skills. Boys grow up playing "I shot you, you're dead!"
The point is that when it comes to relationships, women have a lot of
knowledge and practice at bonding and nurturing. You can train your man to
develop some of these skills, which will make your relationship better. And
if you are a man, the point is that you can learn from your woman how to
nurture and connect. You both win.
True Love Action Plan:
1. Notice how much feminine energy you feel,
male or female.
2. Notice how much you nurture your mate
currently.
3. Do you want to nurture more? Or if
you already are very giving, can you help your mate to be more nurturing?
Remember, true love is your birthright. It is
what we all deserve. You don't have to wait for it, you don't have to
have the perfect lover. You can bring it. You can start loving
the people around you as they are. Allow the people in your life to be
the way they are, and the way they are NOT, and you begin to step into the
possibilities of generating more true love.
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